If you have arrived at the threshold of divorce, or, if you have been unwillingly served with an invitation to domestic court by your spouse, you will quickly be faced with the decision of how to select a divorce attorney. Knowledge and experience are your keys to an equitable outcome.

To find attorneys who are qualified in family law, you may wish to consult with friends or contact the lawyer referral service of the nearest local bar association in your city. Most state bar associations also have referral services as well as a list of board-certified family law practitioners in your area.

It is wise to interview several attorneys before deciding who will represent you. It is also a good idea to find someone who practices in the county where you will file since local rules and procedures vary from courtroom to courtroom.

A personal referral is very helpful because your case will likely be handled in a similar fashion. Consider asking:

1. Was your attorney knowledgeable?
2. Were you kept informed of proceedings?
3. Was your attorney available to discuss your concerns, and did he or she return phone calls promptly?
4. Was your attorney professional and polite?
5. Was the staff courteous and prompt?
6. Were billing policies fair?
7. Do you know what percentage of his/her practice is devoted to family law?

To make the most of your initial visit, be prepared to interview and be interviewed. In order to use your time efficiently, have the facts and circumstances about your life ready to recite. This should include information such as your marriage date, children and date of births, financial information including debt, income of parties, education levels, living arrangements, and any unusual or extraordinary circumstances. You will also want to allow time for a natural flow of conversation that will help you evaluate how well the two of you communicate.