Finding the time to have a fulfilling sex life and manage kids, careers, and just plain old exhaustion, is extremely difficult for most women. We live in a busy world and women are multitasking everything they do. It seems that lovemaking gets put on the back burner way too often. Without lovemaking a couple will struggle to keep that intimacy that united them in the first place. What happen to those days of anytime and anyplace? Responsibilities are what happened. This leads to lack of attention and affection. This is a vicious cycle and it is a major reason many men feel dissatisfied with their relationships. If he does not get the sex he needs, and when I say needs, I am serious. He may become irritable and withdrawn. He will harbor resentment and withhold affection and attention. When this happens women feel resentment and withhold sex even longer. This pattern can eventually lead to feelings of loneliness, which will open the door to potential infidelity. Women need more attention and affection. When a man pays attention to a woman and is loving, and affectionate (even when they are not having sex), she will feel more sexual towards him. She will want to please him more often. If women are tired and not feeling sexual they should try to make love anyway. This may seem like a strange idea, but when you get started you will find that you dont care you are tired (especially once you are aroused). Just like when you first met and you were willing to do it anyplace at anytime. Trust me he will appreciate your effort. This should not be Pity Sex. It should be because you love your man and want him to be satisfied. If you are truly attracted to one another and want to be together, then you will find a way to make sure that both of you are satisfied. Communication is the only way to find workable solutions. Some people are still a little embarrassed to ask for what they want sexually. Without giving your partner the opportunity to please you you cannot expect to reach the highest levels of sexual satisfaction possible. Tell each other honestly, exactly what you like and want. Dont judge one another for having different desires. Be open to change, and you may find that once again, you are willing to have sex anytime and anyplace. Opening the lines of sexual communication will give you the opportunity to build an amazing sexual relationship. This communication will make you closer as a couple. |
