The biggest mistake most men make is assuming women think like them. You see women have a Big Project that looms over everything they do; they can bear children. Pick the right man, and they'll have healthy, happy, successful, loving children. Pick the wrong one, and they might not even get to have any at all. There's not a woman alive that doesn't occasionally look wistfully at little children, and wonders what might be, or have been. So while it's perfectly acceptable for a man to be Jack The Lad, with a girl in every port, any woman who behaves that way is seen to be a tart. Not only could she get pregnant, but as a woman she is more susceptible to sexually transmitted disease, and will suffer more if she gets one. So, you'll have to excuse women if they seem unreasonable; they're playing for far higher stakes. To find and keep the love of your life, you have to have a chat with yourself: what kind of woman do you truly like? Now, I know any half-naked hussy can get the ol' motor revving. But, if you examine your responses objectively, you'll find that a type emerges: slim or rounded, dark or blond, extroverted or introverted. There's a pop or film star that you can't help but gawp at when she's on the screen. There's a type that causes your head to swivel when you're walking down the street. That's the type you should go for; the one that excites an automatic, positive response. You'll find it easier to talk to this type of girl. If you have found your 'true love' she'll feel the same way about you. You have genes that'll help her make a better baby; she does the same for you. So how to seduce such a woman? Well, it's not hard. When you first make eye contact, smile. If she smiles back, you're in. Then go up, and say hello. After that, take your cue from her. She likes you, so you don't have to jabber. You can say the most banal things; it's your appearance, and the sound of your voice, that're doing most of the work. If you're nervous, just tell yourself: "plenty more fish in the sea if I screw this up". Which is true! You'll have a lot more confidence if you've got some money in the bank, an apartment and a car of your own; these should be a priority. You should also dress well. Dressing well means your appearance exudes power: you're in control of your destiny. Women like to be taken care of; project that you can do that, and you're half-way home. Your personal circumstances also affect how you behave: a man who is actually well-off will project that unconsciously, and be more successful with women. He doesn't actually care too much if he succeeds with women or not, and thus, he does! |
