If you need to spice things up in the bedroom, it's always a good idea to throw in some toys for you and your partner to have fun with. Here are some simple sex toys for those who are new to the experience:
1. A vibratorIt's best to start with a simple vibrator, and if you're a lucky man, your partner may already have one. You can easily stimulate her clitoris using this device, especially if she's having a hard time to climax. Vibrators are quite handy for guys tooshe can use this to tease your prostate to give you a more powerful orgasm.
2. Handcuffs or scarvesThese are great for simple role-playing (cops and robbers bedroom style). You can cuff yourselves to each other, or one of you can be cuffed to a bedpost. By limiting your movement this way, you can find more creative positions to give each other pleasure. If you're using scarves instead of cuffs, you can use them as a blindfold too. After all, increasing the element of surprise can do wonders for your libido.
3. BoardgamesDon't break out Monopoly out of the box just yet, an game like 'Twister' can be more interesting if you play it while you're naked. There are also several sex-oriented board games on the market, like Sex Questions and Pervarsity, and you might want to look into those.
4. Edible body paintIf you and your partner have artistic inclinations, using edible body paint is a good way to express yourself when you're inspired. Sexually, that is. You can paint on each other and lick it all off after. Some paints are chocolate flavored, and we all know that most women can't resist chocolate!
5. Penis ringsThey come in all shapes and sizes, and they're good for both you and your partner. They can make your erections more intense, as well as stimulate her vagina in ways that a naked penis won't. This is a good toy for those who want to put a little variety when it comes to penetration.
Once you feel as if you and your partner are past the "beginner's" stage of sex toy usage, go ahead and experiment! There's a whole treasure trove of sex toys available for the advanced user.
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