Everything you need for sensational sex is already attached to your body. Here's a four-steps I have seen at Online Dating Guide/Expert to prepare you for the best sex ever.

We are constantly exposed to raunchy sex in movies and perfectly-taut bodies in the mages, and wonder 'I don't do those things. What's wrong with me'? the fact is all of us think that everyone else has a better body and is having better sex than us. Obviously, we can't solve the modern sexual inferiority complex by banning sexual imagery from social intercourse. But we can certainly learn something from this illusionary scenario-namely, that's it's time to escape the sexual conditioning that tells us to be as hot and horny as Britney.
So, forget everything you think you should do to vamp up your sex life. What you need is to get back to the bare basicsto what's for the thousands of year before movies and television were invented. Yes, we're talking about mental sexual revolution. Here's your handy guide:

FALL IN LOVE WITH'. YOU
The number one item on a good-sex shopping list is loving yourself and your body, say experts. The idea that we have to have the 'right' body, hair, pecs or breasts is a manipulation that preys on one of our deepest fears: that if we're not 'right', nobody will love us. The other problem is to expect to look the same at age 40 as at age 25.

To feel sexy and having great sex start with accepting your bodybirthmarks, bulges, blemishes and all. And this acceptance requires looking at your body with a closer (and kinder) eye.

DON'T NEGLECT NOOKY TIME
Modern humans are technology-rich, but tragically, time-poor. And when the day is packed with board meetings, lunch meetings and body corporate meetings, it's tempting to trade the bedtime meeting with your partner for a private meeting with your pillow. And women are far more likely than their male counterparts to suffer a stress-sapped sex drive. This is because men have 10 times more testosterone a woman's sex drive is less innate and therefore more vulnerable to stress.

So, if you don't schedule time for between-the-sheets meetings, you're setting sail on a sexual rut that stretches way beyond tonight's anticlimax. Now this doesn't mean you should force your tired self into sexy lingerie and seductress mode. But the trick is to stop waiting for desire. Change your attitude to simply making yourself receptive to your partner's stimulation.

FORGET SCORING GOALS
Here's the best (and the worst) sex new you'll probably ever hear: After a relationship's 12 to 30-months 'lust period', good sex does not just happen, and generally women only climax every second or third time they have sex.
But hang on, if the orgasm isn't the why-we-do-it point of sex, then what is? Sensuality, say experts, which includes your whole body and your heartand brings intimacy into the equation. Orgasms are great, but intimacy is vital. Take this message to bed. If you want pleasure-packed sex, stop chasing the 'Big O' and go after the 'Big I' (for Intimacy)

GET THAT SENSUAL FEELING
Accelerate your sex drive with these titillating tips. Your partner hides a dab of honey on his body. Your job is to find it with your tongue. Eat a whole meal off your partner's body: starter on his chest, the main course on his belly, and dessert on his abdomen and genitals. Go on a sex picnicoutdoors, or on your bedroom floor. Pack a large, soft rug, chilled wine, honey, melon slices, frozen grapes, a selection of suggestively shaped foods (carrots, cucumbers, chocolate bars, lollipops.) then use your imagination.
Give your partner a 'three-handed massage'. Sit astride him and rub massage oil over his body, and over your breasts, abdomen and thighs. Begin massaging him with you hands and then start using the other lubed-up areas of your body. All-over arousal for you both. Blindfold yourself or your partner, and stand together in front of mirror. This encourages the person who is watching the action in the mirror to be completely uninhibited.